After you’ve gone through all the wondering, does he like you and how to show him you like him, we talked about, you’re finally going on a date with him. That can still be stressing, but now at least you know he’s not only interested, but he also wants to do something about it. So it’s up to you to decide the course of things.
You already know this – be yourself. Trying to be someone you’re not will only ruin the chances of a future together. Be honest and show him who you are, focus on your strengths and present them. Talk to him about your interests, what you like to do in your free time. If you’re not comfortable with talking on a certain topic, tell him you will, but later on.
Smile, laugh at his jokes, be polite, show interest in him, be nice! That will definitely make him fall for you even more. Everyone likes positive people, so when he sees you smiling and relaxed, the guy will definitely stop being nervous as well. Show him you’re confident about going out on a date and he’ll definitely feel better and be more comfortable with you.
If you’re going somewhere out to eat, do not forget your table manners. There is nothing worse than talking with your mouth full at a restaurant. Show what a lady you are and don’t gross the boy out.
Do not talk only about yourself. Ask him about his favorite topics, what he likes and dislikes. Do not interrupt, that is very rude. Listen patiently when he’s talking passionately. Take the time to learn as much as possible about him and try not to forget what he told you. If you want to show him you like him, it won’t be cool when you don’t remember his birthday. However, if he forgets something about you don’t get mad, it happens.
If something goes wrong, don’t stress. It happens, so what if you spilled sauce on your dress. Laugh it off, it’s not the end of the world. Funny moments become good memories. He won’t think it’s embarrassing, he’ll even try to help you in whatever way possible. If something like that happens to him, again don’t feel like he’s weird, it happens to everyone.
Don’t forget to have fun. That’s the most important thing you can do. Seeing your date enjoying herself with you is the best experience for any guy. Show him how good you feel in his company and how much you appreciate him asking you out. This is his main goal – to have fun with you, when that’s achieved you can definitely say the date has been successful.
As a teen girl you will definitely experience a lot of first dates, so in time things will come on their own – you won’t stress, you will act confident and enjoy yourself no matter the company. We can’t end up with everybody, but we can make some good friends while finding the person that is just right for us.